By Kristy McCaffrey
“Life is like a ten-speed bicycle. Most
of us have gears we never use.” ~ Charles M. Schulz
My
mother, my sister and I went on an Italian holiday in October, just the three
of us, women alone navigating a foreign country. I’ve traveled quite a bit, my
mother also, my sister into the wilderness but never out of the country, and
despite this there was an underlying element of fear. Travel can be unsettling,
and in a different country, disorienting. Add to that the absence of the men in
our lives, that subtle reliance I have on my husband to, well, fix things, to problem-solve,
to pick up the phone and speak to someone in a language likely not to be
English.
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| My mom at the Colosseum. |
We
landed in Rome after fifteen plus hours of travel and immediately toured the
Colosseum and the Roman Forum. I would highly recommend booking a tour in
advance if only to bypass the long entrance lines. We did the same at the end
of the week for the Vatican. The magnificence of the Sistine Chapel left me in
tears, or maybe it was the claustrophobia of seeing it with 10,000 other
people. Our savvy tour guide—a young Italian woman—gave us wise advice, “Get
out while you can. Save yourself.”
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Michelangelo's Pieta.
Truly magnificent. |
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| Piazza Navona, Rome. |
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My mom and I in St. Peter's
Basilica, Vatican City. |
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| Soriano nel Cimino. |
The
bulk of our holiday was spent on a Culture Discovery Vacation Tour in the small
town of Soriano nel Cimino, a two-hour drive north of Rome. Soriano is a
medieval village situated upon a hill, very quaint and picturesque; it was like
stepping back in time. But several excursions into the countryside later, we
learned that picturesque medieval hilltop towns are everywhere in Italy. Italians are so lucky. We arrived during
Soriano’s annual Chestnut Festival, which meant a steady stream of
sword-fighting displays, drumming through the evening, jousting and archery
tournaments, and flag-throwing competitions. Not only were we immersed in
Italian culture, we were now steeped in historic
Italian culture. It was difficult not to skip down the narrow cobblestone street
each morning to the local café for a pastry and cappuccino, so idyllic our
existence became. My sister and I settled into a cute two-bedroom apartment
while my mom had her own accommodations, a one-bedroom retreat. We soon began
our week of eating cheese and pasta and cheese, and drinking wine, wine, and
more wine.
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| My Italian apartment in Soriano. |
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| The cobblestone streets of Soriano. |
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My sister, myself and my mom.
The castle of Soriano is behind us. |
Culture
Discovery offers trips that encompass hands-on cooking classes with tours of
surrounding towns. Interaction with local families lend a friendly atmosphere
not normally found on trips abroad. It’s an immersive experience and an
exhausting one. Still, my appreciation for Italy has only deepened.
I’m
a middle-of-the-road cook; my mother hardly cooks at all; my sister loves it.
The cooking classes offered something for everyone. We made Pappardelle pasta
from scratch, along with Bolognese sauce. There was Tuscan Roasted Chicken and
Potatoes and homemade Tiramisu, a Brasato al Barolo Roast (soaked overnight in
an entire bottle of Barolo red wine) and a light, creamy Panna Cotta for dessert.
We learned the art of making Pecorino cheese, heating the sheep’s milk in a
huge pot and scraping the sides by hand to scoop the cheese, then upon
reheating, skimming the curdles from the top for Ricotta (a re-cooked cheese).
In learning to make Panzanella I came to appreciate the ingenuity of Italian
women. Panzanella is a salad with old bread soaked in water as its base.
Italian women always make use of leftovers. Throughout the week it became clear
that many Italian dishes are deceptively simple. We were urged to experiment
upon our return home. Olive oil, fresh garlic and lemon can work wonders with
almost any ingredients. I learned a new appreciation for my Italian mother-in-law,
surrounded as I was by men and women who reminded me of her boisterous family
that had emigrated to Pennsylvania.
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| Brasato al Barolo Roast. |
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| Tuscan Roasted Chicken and Potatoes. |
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| Panzanella. |
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| Making ricotta cheese. |
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| The finished product. |
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| Assisi. |
We
toured the town of Assisi, resting place of St. Francis and St. Clare, as well
as the papal city of Viterbo. We saw Montepulciano, home of the world-renowned
Vino Nobile wine and the most beautiful wine cellar in the world. For Twilight fans, New Moon was filmed here. We visited Civita di Bagnoreggio, known
as the Dying City because it’s literally crumbling away, but unfortunately were
unable to see the Italian Grand Canyon due to heavy cloud cover. We drove
through Tuscany and it’s truly as beautiful as any photograph. We witnessed the
magnificent gothic cathedral in Orvieto.
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| Wine cellar in Montepulciano. |
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| The Dying City. |
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| Gothic cathedral in Orvieto. |
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| This big guy lived across the street from the cooking villa. |
And
of course we shopped—leather boots, wallets, purses, cheese, olive oil, and
boar sausage. We shipped many cases of wine home because in the slightly
inebriated state reached while at wine tastings we became convinced we’d never
find a wine as good as this one back in the U.S.
The
trip wasn’t without mishaps—flight delays both leaving and returning, a missed
train stop in Rome causing us to drag our luggage up and down flights of stairs
as we struggled to find our way, a cancelled hotel that put me on a Portuguese pay
phone on our layover home hoping to find someone who spoke English. I imagined
what my husband would do…and then I did that. I forged ahead, feeling unsure
and nervous, but determined to solve our dilemmas. Sometimes my sister solved
them. And sometimes my mother did. To travel is to explore, to learn, to
journey, but it’s also to shift those gears that get little use in the safety
of home.
